Devin holland I like to ground drive all my colts before I ride them. I really think it helps to get them to understanding the snaffle bit and puts a nice handle on them before I ever get on. That will cover the backing part. I don't bother with teaching side passing at this stage. That could work against you.  Have you looked through the ES20 colt starting videos? There's some good info in there. Â
I would just stay the course on your mare with the bit thing. As long as you can get it in her mouth eventually without too much drama, it will probably get better on it's own. Just don't get frustrated and start trying to force it. That never helps, believe me🤦😂.
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Menden Trot a circle to the right, push his hip out to the left as you go. When his hip is nice and free and you line up his nose with your circle, leave your leg on let him out and ask for the lope. The left lead should pop right out. Let me know how it goes.